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The Finer Details

“I have grown to love secrecy. It seems to be the one thing that can make modern life mysterious or marvelous to us. The commonest thing is delightful if only one hides it.”
― Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray
  • What Are Your Stats?
    I am a petite and grabbable 5’2, with small, firm, natural breasts and a rather marvellous derrière. Dress Size: UK 8 - 10 / US 6 - 8 / Size Small Bra Size: 34 B (they're perky!) Shoe Size: UK 4 / EU 37 Other: I have no tattoos or daring piercings, just porcelain skin, untameable wavy auburn hair, a bewitching smile and a penchant for mischief.
  • Why Do You Hide Your Face?
    I am in a very fortunate position to be 'out' to my nearest and dearest, however, much of the world still looks unkindly upon my chosen profession. I, therefore, choose not to subject myself to that unkindness by being a face-in companion. This anonymity also makes international travel a little smoother and easier for me. I appreciate your understanding of this, though I'm sad I don't get to show off my Disney princess blue eyes, as I have frequently been told they're one of my best features. You'll just have to meet me to confirm for yourself...
  • What Do You Mean By ‘Girlfriend Experience’?
    I promise to be your secret girlfriend for whatever time we have together. By this, I mean deep, intimate companionship, minus the bickering and chores list. Laughter and romance. Dinner dates stuffed to the brim with flirtation and stimulating conversation. Hours spent rolling in crisp sheets, intoxicated by each other’s bodies and fantasies. Hand-holding. Kissing. Affectionate touch. Whispered sweet nothings and philosophical pillow talk as we lay entwined in one another’s arms. I pride myself on being open, honest, loving and giving, qualities I hope we will get to share in soon. I'll also wow you with my odd but endearing facts, like did you know that all pterodactyls are pterosaurs, but not all pterosaurs are pterodactyls? Now you do.
  • I’d Like To Get to Know You Better...May I?
    Well, who wouldn’t? This is all about knowing each other, after all. For a little more insight into my life, dreams and desires, I suggest heading to my Musings. I'm not as good at updating the little blog as I should be, but I do try. For a glimpse of my terrible sense of humour, I suggest following me on Twitter (or X as we are strangely supposed to call it now), and pretty pictures are over on Instagram. Then of course, if you really want to get to know each other, the absolute best way is to meet me in person - longer dates are perfect for this.
  • May I Buy You A Gift?
    Well, that would be incredibly lovely! Gifts are absolutely not expected but always very gratefully received. If you would like to bring something to our date I always adore flowers (especially tulips), rosé champagne, unusual succulents and candles. And I always greatly appreciate, thoughtful, personal gifts that have meaning to you - those are extra special! For more inspiration please see my Wishes page.
  • How Do I Book A Date With You?
    Well, you're best to RSVP here. First impressions are always important, and it would be lovely if you could include a little about yourself and your expectations for our date in your message to me. I really do love a plan, and while I don't expect a full itinerary, the more detail you give and the more thought out your note is the more excited to meet you I shall be. I do screen all my potential dates - a reference from another, well-established companion you have seen recently will do nicely, but please do ensure you have asked her permission first! If you are unable to provide a reference I will need either a form of personal identification or your LinkedIn profile/business website bio. These measures are simply for my safety and peace of mind. All your information will be kept private and secure, then destroyed after our meeting. Once we have both agreed to move forward with meeting each other (how wonderfully exciting!) I will require a non-refundable deposit* to secure your spot in my diary. Introductory Flirtations (90-minutes - 2-hours): £150 deposit Gourmet Delights (3-hours - 16-hours): 25% deposit Adventures (24-hours upwards & all travel dates): 50% deposit The remainder of my consideration will be due at the beginning of our date in cash - please use a non-descript envelope or a gift bag if we are out and about. Longer dates can be fully paid via bank transfer, please ensure you have paid in advance of our meeting to ensure funds clear with plenty of time. *In the highly unlikely instance that I myself have to cancel, your deposit will of course be returned to you within 48hours.
  • Outcall Or Incall?
    I Greatly Prefer outcalls to upscale hotels. I'm a sucker for hearing my heels click-clack through marble-floored lobbies and doormen in top hats. Hotels offer us sumptuous and romantic surroundings, security on both sides and the utmost discretion. Plus, if there's a particularly spectacular bathtub in the room you'll get to hear me gushing about how much I love baths. Scrap that, it doesn't even have to be spectacular. Just love a bath. Hint hint. I unfortunately no longer have a permanent incall space. I kindly request that you organise a location for us - I highly recommend Day Use for our get-togethers. I am, of course, more than happy to organise the location in order to host, but the fee for this will be in addition to my consideration and expected in advance of our meeting alongside my usual deposit.
  • Do You Have A List Of Services? Do You Offer Kink?
    This seems the perfect time to reiterate that I see myself as a girlfriend experience specialist. I have a naughty side which I do like to explore with long-term lovers, where mutual trust and respect have been firmly established. However, I am not a kink provider and will be highly unlikely to respond to booking requests of this nature. There are some incredibly talented kink specialists in London who I greatly admire, especially those affiliated with the KLE Collective. When it comes to our time together I like to think of myself as the free-spirited naughty girlfriend you've always dreamt of. Think deep, passionate kissing, mutual pleasure giving and receiving and plenty of playful tumbling around in bed. While I prefer not to give an entire rundown of all the mischief we might get up to, please know that as long as you are respectful I can guarantee we will have fun.
  • Do You Offer Duos or Couple Dates?
    A heartfelt and emphatic YES. Whoever said that three's a crowd, clearly wasn't running in the right social circles. I am bisexual (both in work and personal life) and think that women are simply divine. Duos & Moresomes I am very fortunate to know some stunning fellow companions in London, who I would be delighted to ask to join us. Or, if you have a companion you adore who isn't on my Friends page and whom you think I might fall head over heels for, too, please do make some introductions. I play very well with others. In the name of fairness and equality, please ensure you match the highest quoted rate for all involved. Couples I would be absolutely delighted to join you and your partner for a romantic evening. What a thrilling way to play together in your relationship. Please note that both partners will have to go through my screening process, which includes a phone call with your wife/girlfriend/partner to ensure she is fully onboard with our dalliance. Time with couples incurs an additional £300 total to my fee.
  • Are You Willing To Travel Further Afield To Visit Me?
    I absolutely love ‘fly me to you’ dates and am more than happy to discuss this with you. Travelling is truly my raison d'être, made all the better for sharing with a fellow adventure-seeker. I am currently available for UK countryside jaunts, European city breaks and worldwide escapades. Let's go exploring... Head to my Travel page to find out more. Please note that all travel costs will be in addition to my consideration and must be paid alongside my usual deposit once everything is confirmed. Minimum Date Lengths: Nationwide, outside of London - 4-hour dinner date Europe (under a 3-hour flight from London) - 6-hour dinner date Europe (over a 3-hour flight from London) - 8-hour day date Far Away (flights under 6 hours) - Overnight Far Far Away (flights under 10 hours) - 24-hours Far Far Far Away (flights over 10 hours) - 48-hours
  • Do You Take A Deposit?
    Yes, I take a deposit for all dates. Whether it's our first meeting or our fiftieth, a deposit is a must to secure our date in my diary. This ensures I block out that time just for us and covers any pre-date expenses, especially as I have to travel into London on the train to meet you. Once a deposit is made, it's non-refundable. This policy is in place to ensure fairness and protect both parties' interests. Please refer to my cancellation policy for more details. Short And Sweet up to Sleepovers: 30% deposit Adventures (24-hours upwards & all travel dates): 50% deposit I have multiple methods for receiving deposits, including a discreet business bank account, Wise, Stripe, PayPal, Crypto and select gift cards. I will always confirm the deposit's safe receipt. The remaining balance is due in cash when we meet. Please let me know if you would prefer to pay the remaining balance via bank transfer, Wise, or Stripe. Crypto: I can accept BTC or ETH. Due to crypto's volatile nature and the high fees associated with wallets, I kindly ask for a 10% transaction fee on top of all crypto payments. Gift Cards: I accept a few select gift cards (usually John Lewis or Selfridges). Please ask which ones I am currently taking. If you wish to send a gift card from an alternative retailer, I can accept this as a show of good faith; however, the total amount of my fee will be payable when we meet.
  • What Is Your Cancellation Policy?
    I do understand that sometimes life throws unexpected things in our way, and emergencies happen. For dates up to and including 16hours: If you need to cancel and provide more than 24 hours' notice, I will hold onto your deposit for a future rescheduled date. If you cancel with less than 24 hours' notice, your full deposit will be forfeited. A new deposit is required if you wish to reschedule. For longer dates, travel and FMTY: If you need to cancel and provide more than 48 hours notice, I will hold onto your deposit for a future rescheduled date. Travel expenses will either need to be paid again for our rescheduled date or the difference in cost will be covered for changing the ticket to our newly agreed-upon date. Unfortunately, if you give me less than 48 hours' notice of cancellation, you will forfeit the deposit. If you wish to reschedule, you will be expected to make a deposit again, along with any travel expenses. If I Cancel: In the very unlikely event that I have to cancel our meeting, your deposit will, of course, be promptly returned to you within 48 hours, in full, unless you would like me to hold it and reschedule. To make this as smooth a process as possible please make sure you give me all the necessary details of your preferred payment method.
  • What Is Your Tour Cancellation Policy
    When I'm on tour, my schedule is carefully streamlined; unfortunately, I can't be as flexible as I would like. Tour deposits are non-refundable. Please give at least 48 hour's notice if you need to cancel, I will do my best to reschedule our time, though this can be tricky on tours. If you give me less than 48 hours' notice, I will be unlikely to be able to accommodate you. A true gentleman would send the remaining balance as an apology for the late notice.
  • What Is Your Tour Deposit Policy?
    A 50% non-refundable deposit is required to secure all dates in my diary. I can accept this via bank transfer, Wise, Stripe, PayPal or BTC (10% transaction fee applicable for crypto).
  • When Are You Next Visiting The USA?
    Soon, you little keen bean! My next USA tour is planned for July 2024, and I'm already taking bookings. It's a jampacked schedule this time, so I highly suggest getting in touch sooner rather than later.
  • Which Cities Are You Visiting?
    This trip, I'm exploring the East Coast. My city list is still fairly flexible, with only Atlanta set in stone. City visits depend on interest levels and pre-bookings. Proposed Cities: Atlanta, GA Charlotte, NC Raleigh, NC Richmond, VA Alexandria, VA NYC, NY Boston, MA Detroit, MI Chicago, IL
  • I Don't See My City Listed, Could I Convince You To Visit?
    Oh, I can most definitely be persuaded... South East/East Coast: 4-Hour+ date plus hotel cost for one night West Coast: 6-Hour+ date plus hotel cost for one night
  • I Don't See Your Dates Listed?
    I cannot list the exact dates I will be visiting for travel safety reasons. Take it up with your politicians in charge of border control and anti-sex work laws. New Lovers: Once I have confirmed your identity through screening, I will give you the exact dates I will visit. Known Lovers: Please reach out now for dates.
  • What Screening Do You Need For The USA?
    Due to pesky legality issues, I need to be a little more rigorous with my screening for the USA. I highly prefer an unobstructed photo ID clearly showing your Name, DOB, and Photo. It would be even better if you sent that, plus a selfie of you holding the ID for me. LinkedIn/Business Profile Page plus a blank email from your work email address is also appreciated. Failing the above, I can consider at least two references from well-known, established US providers you have seen in the last three months. Please make sure you have asked their permission before giving me their contact details.
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